Toddler Tantrum Toolkit
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Product Information
Product Name: Toddler Tantrum Toolkit
Method: The ‘Uh-Oh Song’
Target Age Group: Toddlers (18 months to ~6
years)
Why It Works
Toddlers don’t need lectures; they need loving boundaries. The
‘Uh-Oh Song’ helps remove attention from misbehavior while
providing a safe, calm space for the child to regroup.
How to Use
- See the misbehavior and stay calm.
- Sing softly: ‘Uh-oh…’ then say: ‘Looks like you need some
time in your room/quiet spot.’ - Gently guide them to a reset spot with the door open or
closed. - Avoid explaining or scolding; less talk equals less drama.
- Wait quietly for calm.
- Welcome them back warmly: ‘You’re back! I missed you.’
Do’s and Don’ts
- Don’t:
- Yell or argue.
- Use for fear, hunger, or pain.
- Do:
- Use it early.
- Keep it gentle.
- Be consistent; repetition builds calm.
Specifications
Contact: 800-338-4065
Website: www.loveandlogic.com
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FAQ
Q: Can this method be used for older children?
A: While designed for toddlers, the ‘Uh-Oh Song’ method can be
adapted for older children with modifications to suit their
developmental stage.
Q: What if my child refuses to go to the reset spot?
A: If your child resists, calmly and gently encourage them
without engaging in power struggles. Consistency in using the
method is key to its effectiveness.
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Toddler Tantrum Toolkit
The ‘Uh-Oh Song’ Method
A gentle but firm reset tool for toddlers (18 months to ~6 years)
WHY IT WORKS: Toddlers don’t need lectures-they need loving boundaries. The ‘Uh-Oh Song’ helps you remove attention from misbehavior while giving your child a safe, calm space to regroup.
HOW TO USE IT: 1. See the misbehavior. Stay calm. 2. Sing softly: ‘Uh-oh…’ then say: ‘Looks like you need some time in your room/quiet spot.’ 3. Gently guide them to a reset spot (door open or closed). 4. Don’t explain or scold-less talk = less drama. 5. Wait quietly for calm. 6. Welcome them back warmly: ‘You’re back! I missed you.’
DON’T: – Don’t yell or argue. – Don’t use for fear, hunger, or pain.
DO: – Use it early. – Keep it gentle. – Be consistent. Repetition builds calm!
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People who are really successful implementing this skill purchased Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood
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Documents / Resources
 | Love and Logic Toddler Tantrum Toolkit [pdf] User Guide Toddler Tantrum Toolkit, Toddler Tantrum Toolkit, Toolkit |