1. Introduction: Understanding Human Connection
This book explores the critical importance of human connection and the profound impact of loneliness on individual and societal well-being. Authored by the 19th Surgeon General of the United States, Dr. Vivek Murthy, it presents loneliness as a significant public health concern, contributing to various modern epidemics.
The central premise is that humans are inherently social creatures, and our innate desire to connect is both the source of the problem and the key to its solution. The book delves into how loneliness affects health, education, workplace performance, and societal cohesion.
2. Key Strategies for Fostering Connection
Dr. Murthy outlines four fundamental strategies to cultivate stronger human connections and address the pervasive issue of loneliness:
- Spend Time Each Day with Those You Love: Dedicate at least 15 minutes daily to meaningful interactions with close individuals.
- Focus on Each Other: Practice active listening and give full, undivided attention during conversations, making eye contact when appropriate.
- Embrace Solitude: Recognize that building a stronger connection with oneself through practices like meditation, prayer, art, music, or time in nature can precede and enhance connections with others.
- Help and Be Helped: Engage in acts of service, whether by assisting a neighbor, seeking advice, or offering a simple smile. This reinforces personal value and purpose.
3. Visual Overview
Front cover of the book, featuring the title "Together" and the author's name, Vivek H. Murthy, MD.
Side view of the hardcover edition, showing the spine with the title and author.
Official Book Overview Video
An official video providing an overview of the book "Together: The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World" and its core message.
4. Author's Background and Expertise
Dr. Vivek H. Murthy served as the 19th Surgeon General of the United States, appointed by President Barack Obama. In this role, he commanded a uniformed service of 6,600 public health officers globally. His tenure included launching the "TurnTheTide" campaign to address the opioid crisis and issuing the first Surgeon General's Report on Alcohol, Drugs, and Health.
An internal medicine physician and entrepreneur, Dr. Murthy co-founded several organizations focused on health and community, including VISIONS (an HIV/AIDS education program), Swasthya (a community health partnership), TrialNetworks (a software company), and Doctors for America. He holds degrees from Harvard and Yale, and completed his residency at Brigham and Women's Hospital, later joining Harvard Medical School faculty.
5. Book Specifications
| Format | Hardcover |
| Publication Date | April 21, 2020 |
| Publisher | Harper |
| Print Length | 352 pages |
| Language | English |
| ISBN-10 | 0062913298 |
| ISBN-13 | 978-0062913296 |
| Item Weight | 2.31 pounds |
| Dimensions | 6 x 1.13 x 9 inches |
6. Endorsements and Impact
The book has received widespread acclaim for its timely and crucial message. It has been recognized as an Instant New York Times Bestseller and an Editors' Pick.
Notable figures have praised the book:
- "Together is fascinating, moving, and essential reading." — Atul Gawande, author of Being Mortal
- "This book is a gift for us all." — Susan Cain, author of Quiet
- "I love both the message and the messenger of this brilliant book. Listen to what Vivek Murthy has to say about social connection—and then take his advice. It’s exactly what the doctor ordered." — Angela Duckworth, author of Grit
The book's research highlighted that loneliness is a universal condition, resonating across diverse demographics and political spectrums, underscoring its broad relevance and impact.
